Sensual immersion is a key, here. While
you don’t have to use every sense every time, the approach is
to learn over time how you like to
be sensed and how your intended Beloved likes to be sensed. You’ve
probably said at one time, “He heard every word I was saying,” which
meant that you were not just talking at him but that he was listening
to you in a relational moment. You “connected.”
Each sense: sight, smell,
taste, touch and hearing is a way to open preciousness.
Within a nurturing embrace you approach your intimate Other
using every sense to
evoke for yourselves that moment of wonder when
you
both are precious.
When your intimate
Other becomes present to you as precious, it is then
that the
spark of vital zest shocks
you both electric such that you
grasp and gasp and become together as
One as Beloved.
Continue—Achieving
Belovedness